Does not mean that we rise unlimited or we do what our child wants. We follow our instinct, responding to their needs both physiological and emotional. These paternal behaviors indicate that you are carrying out an attachment parenting. Breastfeeding and returning to work: how to adapt to new routines enjoy your family without external concerns.  The Patagonian coast, an ideal place to invest inner paradise.

raising a child

For those who think it is a current fad, this kind of bond between parents and children is studied over 50 years ago and has been practiced for many more. Already in the fifties, the psychiatrist John Bowl by stressed that raising exercise this way was a common attached parenting among primates and, to carry it out in children, the end result were boys and more secure and confident adults. What “should” do to rise with attachment? Not really much more than follow the paternal instinct, like thousands of women and men who have done so far, but we will mention some starting points.

Link Early

Skin to skin bonding with the baby just born promotes the creation of an early link. The hours and days after birth are a time of maximum sensitivity in which both mothers and babies need to be in contact with each other to interact and create a secure attachment. The baby must be touched and caressed immediately after birth. You must have the warmth of the mother almost continuously during this time, otherwise, all the physical contact of the world will not be enough. Breast milk is the best food for our children. Establish a good breastfeeding generates the baby feel loved and protected, and responds with a cheerful, confident and satisfied attitude.

Babies need an environment similar to that they had in our belly. Being in direct contact with his father or his mother reminds them that habitat, providing tranquility, security, staying relaxed and happy. The time to have her baby in her arms to her chest and the bed is very short relative to the total life of your child. Still, the memory of his love and availability last a lifetime.

Sleep with our children is best for them and for us: separation anxiety is avoided, making sleep more and rest better, they have their food source within his mouth; synchronize your breath with ours and, mainly, they feel safe. Co-sleeping promotes the welfare of the baby, her neuronal development and capacity appropriate responses to stressful situations, and the development of self-esteem infant and subsequent personal autonomy